Marriage Partner

Last night chat on whatsapp, my classmates were talking about............ marriage partner or we call it as partner di pelaminan *acailah* *backsound: iklan KB* 

Me, myself.. have no idea how he and I will meet, when, and where. No idea how he looks like. And completely no idea who he is. But I'm sure, one thing, just like my mom said, people like us fall in love with people like us. Gak mungkin ceritanya aku bakal jodoh sama Logan Lerman, sama Michael Cera, atau Tom Felton, nggak mungkin. Aku tahu. Bahkan mungkin partner aku nanti adalah orang yang deket sama aku tapi aku gak tau. Who knows.

"...people like us fall in love with people like us. We fall in love with ourselves. I think it takes more than just anyone to be with one of us. We see the deeper parts of people. We long for their souls, for their garden of thoughts, for feeling their backbone, their spine, inhaling the words they breathe. We see more in people because of what we know ourselves.

I think we fall in love with people like us, people with beautiful words, and thoughts, and glances at strangers and artistry. We can’t just wake up in the morning and go to work. We want to lie in bed, count the freckles on our shoulders, how many times a raindrop hits the window. We breathe differently. We strive off of beauty, that’s why we can’t settle for just anyone who’s different. There’s got to be a person we find beauty in. Who thinks, and feels, and wonders as remarkably as we sometimes do.

I think we fall into people who are a lot like us because they understand, appreciate, relate, and know the way we experience and feel. And I think that’s important. They say opposites attract, like magnets, they’re pulled, from different places, ending up together. But we don’t need opposites, or magnetic force. We’re on the same side, north or south. We don’t need to be pulled together. We’re already there." - Unknown

I think, it's not always opposite attract that absolutely 180 degree different with us. I get the point. There is a same line that connect the two of us. Probably hobby, way of thinking, characteristics, or any else. Whether opposite attract or not, it's God's power that work in mysterious ways. But I do agree that people like us fall in love with people like us :D

Then, be careful. It means that yourself is a reflection of your partner later. Then, if you want to have handsome partner you have to make yourself beautiful. If you want to have smart partner you have to make your brain shines elegantly and sort of.

Mine is maybe the one who likes to break the rules, cheerful, smart, and wanderlust ♥

What about yours?